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Wednesday, December 19, 2012
@ 12:48 AM Wrong? What would be your first thought when you've heard that a girl has "snatched" someone's fiance from another? Mine was like "wtf, what is wrong with you?" But after thinking it through and reading through the facebook posts that the victim (the girl whose fiance got snatched away, Yuki), I think that she had a close call- getting married with a guy that is mindlessly weak, vulnerable and not " man material". He can't even be called a man if he is not faithful enough. He's called Alvin. Ok, not my Alvin. Another Alvin. Thank goodness. The "snatcher" is Zoe Raymond. The name might ring a bell to some as she is a model for some blogshops, but that's all I know. The part that I'm most concerned about is that the guy is the actual one at fault. Although what Zoe Raymond did was wrong, as I believe that one should leave a happy couple alone, I still went ahead to put myself in her shoes. If you really love someone, would you prefer to see that someone getting married to another when there is a possibility that you can have him and "live happily ever after"? (At this point I must say that if all she's after is a short fling/satisfaction from breaking up a relationship just for fun or to prove her self worth, then she should just burn in hell) After all, man is selfish. However I heard that Zoe Raymond has also done the same thing before when she was just 17. The other victim was Xiaxue's friend, Ripples. And that relationship was 9 years long. You can gather small snippets about the Ripples saga here and here. The Yuki-Alvin relationship was 3 years long. So my conclusion is that either Zoe Raymond falls for the wrong guy every time or she is doing it on purpose. The story is simple. Alvin, a best man for the groom, meets Zoe Raymond, a bridesmaid, at a wedding. The two then got to know each other and their correspondence has been more than just friends, with him taking her out and buying her gifts, and her sending him love letters. The guy then proceeds to break up with Yuki. You can read Yuki's point of view here. The truth is, stories like this are happening everywhere, everyday. Why is it only Zoe Raymond that gets pointed out? Maybe she's "popular" or something. In dramas where the 3rd party is always prettier, this situation is different. In my opinion, Yuki is prettier though this has nothing to do with the situation at all. The guy must be blind. The one who should really be sympathised with and congratulated is Yuki. Sympathising her, for her poor choice in men. Congratulating her, for having escaped a man who can't keep his dick in his pants whenever some other pretty girl starts paying him attention. Seriously. If you can't open your eyes and see this girl, this woman who supported you when you felt tired during work, who kept quiet and forgave your infidelity even when she had concrete proof of it after reading the letter Zoe Raymond gave you, who would swim back to you cause you she thought you were drowning, who prioritized you in every aspect of her life, this pretty woman who would give up her life for you, you are an asshole. Also you are not handsome at all. I have no idea why Yuki, such a beautiful woman, would even choose you. And in your next life I wish you will be a cockroach. Eat all the rubbish and live in smelly places. |
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